Let's all just agree to disagree, live and let live and above all...be kind and gentle to the one's you love!! Don't bother with doing anything half-assed because someone, (probably me) will have to fix it.
Work smart, not hard. You don't have to be nice, I am not nice..I just fully believe that it is much easier to simply be polite. Just like you learned in pre-school or kindergarten whatever, wherever just try to say please and thank you. Your welcome and helping someone that needs help or just holding a door for a couple of people will not hurt.